It’s time I did something different for my next relationship. So far, I’ve only been with guys with whom it was all a matter of passion. Nothing rational. I’d lose myself to the excitement. More often, I’d stick with the guy just because he was cute or simply was super confident in himself. In other words, I fell for the assertive type. I craved those bossy kinda dominant guys. I am in SoCal all the way in Bakersfield in Kern. A cute country haven in the area, but also a den of rough type guys. You’d think that I would have learned by now at 32. It’s fun at first, but it gets tiresome. Especially when passion turns into disrespect. The newness of being with the cute transgirl dwindles and then the guy loses interest. Proof that he was not with me for the right reasons. Mostly because of my cute figure and obviously because I am pre-op trans.
So for my next relation, I’ll shake things up. First, I’ll take my time and avoid falling for the same type of guy. Secondly, I’ll be on the lookout for that kind, yet cute and patient guy. The one that will seduce me with his kindness rather than his bossy attitude. There’s no other way to say this, but I want to make a friend before making a lover. And then fall in love with that friend. That’s how we’ll make this relationship last. At least, it seems logical and easy in my mind. Let’s see how it goes.
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